Islamic Etiquette's(Adab) (4. Looking After girls)

Al-Adab al-Mufrad

1. Someone who looks after three or two daughters

 'Uqba ibn 'Amir reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah 

bless him and grant him peace, say, "If someone has three daughters and is patient with them and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield 

against the Fire for him."

 Ibn 'Abbas reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "There is no Muslim who has two daughters and takes good care of them but that he will enter the Garden."

 Jabir ibn 'Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him 

and grant him peace, said, "Anyone who has three daughters and provides for them, clothes them and shows mercy to them will definitely enter the Garden."

 A man from the people said, "And two daughters, Messenger of Allah?" He said, "And two." 

 

2. Someone who looks after three sisters

 Abu Sa'id al-Khudri said that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one has three daughters or three sisters and is good to them but that he will enter the Garden." 

 

3. The excellence of someone who looks after his daughter after she has been sent back home

 Al-Miqdam ibn Ma'dikarib heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "What you feed yourself is sadaqa for you. What you feed your child is sadaqa for you. What you feed your wife is sadaqa is for you. What you feed your servant is sadaqa for you."